I keep checking my boyfriend's phone when he's in the shower and I hate myself for it but I cannot stop even though I know it's destroying whatever trust we have left.
More people experience this than they realize.
The compulsive need to surveil another reveals the terror of being unknowable to ourselves.
“Where Are You with Codependence?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.