I keep choosing partners who need me more than they want me because being needed feels safer than being desired.
More people experience this than they realize.
The equation of worth with utility learned in childhood makes desire feel dangerous and need feel like security.
“Where Are You with Family-of-origin patterns in adult love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.