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Scenario

When Fantasy Becomes Your Primary Relationship

I keep creating elaborate fantasies about my coworker who barely knows I exist and I spend hours imagining conversations we'll never have.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The idealized other has become more real than actual connection, offering safety from the vulnerability of genuine intimacy.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Courtly Love & Idealization?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.