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Scenario

When fantasy relationships feel more real than your actual relationship

I keep creating elaborate fantasies about this coworker who barely knows I exist and I spend more time thinking about our imaginary relationship than working on my actual one with my girlfriend of three years.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart seeks refuge in imagination when reality feels insufficient or threatening.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Romantic love — what it is and what it isn't?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.