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Scenario

Why You Keep Score in Relationships

I keep track of every favor I do for people and get angry when they don't reciprocate in exactly the same way even though I never told them I was keeping score.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Hidden contracts in relationships create resentment because they ask others to pay debts they never agreed to incur.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Codependence?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.