Periagoge
Scenario

When protecting someone from disappointment requires ongoing deception

I lied to my wife about losing my job three weeks ago and keep pretending to go to work every day because I cannot bear to disappoint her again.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to shield loved ones from pain can trap someone in cycles of dishonesty that ultimately create greater harm.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Hesed — Hebrew covenantal loving-kindness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.