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Scenario

Why we're drawn to emotionally unavailable partners

I think I'm only attracted to people who are emotionally unavailable, and the one person who actually wants to commit to me feels boring and safe in a way that makes me want to run.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The nervous system often confuses intensity with intimacy, seeking the familiar chaos of uncertainty over the foreign territory of secure love.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Falling in Love and Infatuation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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