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Scenario

When you lie to avoid your partner's emotional reactions

I told my girlfriend I was working late but actually went out with friends because I knew she would make me feel guilty about not spending time with her and now I feel like a liar.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Small deceptions often point toward larger truths about feeling controlled or unsafe in expressing authentic needs.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in intimate relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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