I told my therapist I'd rather suffer beautifully than be happy and ordinary and she looked at me like I'd said something terrifying.
More people experience this than they realize.
Pain has been romanticized into identity, making contentment feel like spiritual death.
“Where Are You with Courtly Love & Idealization?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.