Periagoge
Scenario

When you realize your sexual orientation after marriage

I'm gay and married to a woman and have been for fifteen years and I love her but I'm dying inside and don't know how to tell her without destroying everything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Living authentically sometimes requires dismantling the very structures that have provided safety and meaning.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Eros — Greek desire and its wisdom?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.