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Scenario

When partners' needs for relationship structure become incompatible

I'm polyamorous and my primary partner just told me they want to be monogamous again and I have to choose between them and the relationship structure that feels most authentic to me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The architecture of love sometimes requires choosing between authentic self-expression and preserving connection with those we cherish most.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with LGBTQ+ Love, Partnership, and Its Varieties?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.