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When partners' needs for relationship structure become incompatible

I'm polyamorous and my primary partner just told me they want to be monogamous again and I have to choose between them and the relationship structure that feels most authentic to me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The architecture of love sometimes requires choosing between authentic self-expression and preserving connection with those we cherish most.

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