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Scenario

Why married people develop crushes on coworkers

I've been married for twelve years but I can't stop thinking about this woman I work with who laughs at all my jokes and texts me about non-work things.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Long-term partnerships can create a hunger for novelty that feels both threatening and essential to one's sense of aliveness.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Falling in Love and Infatuation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.