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Scenario

How to Stop Planning Someone Else's Life

I've been planning my sister's wedding for eight months while she complains about every decision I make and I cannot figure out how to stop without ruining everything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Taking over another's responsibilities and then resenting their ingratitude reveals our need to be needed disguised as generosity.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Codependence?”

Peri

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