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Scenario

When Love Letters Become Safer Than Love

I've been writing love letters to someone I barely know for six months and I'm terrified of actually sending one because it might ruin the perfect love I've built in my head.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fantasy of perfect love has become more precious than the risk of imperfect reality.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Courtly Love & Idealization?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.