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Scenario

When supporting someone means enabling their harm

My best friend asked me to be her maid of honor but I think her fiancé is emotionally abusive and I cannot pretend to celebrate this marriage.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Friendship sometimes demands that we refuse to participate in what we are asked to witness, even when refusal costs us the relationship.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Commitment — what it means and what it costs?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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