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Scenario

Why grieving your child's former identity feels selfish but necessary

My daughter came out as transgender six months ago and I am trying to be supportive but I keep mourning the child I thought I knew and I hate myself for it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love requires releasing who someone was to embrace who they are becoming.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Storge — familial affection?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.