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Scenario

When Your Ex Still Treats You Like Their Therapist

My ex-boyfriend keeps texting me about his problems with his new girlfriend and I respond every time because part of me hopes they'll break up.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Remaining emotionally available to someone who chose another is a form of self-abandonment disguised as generosity.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Codependence?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.