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Scenario

When someone asks you to perform forgiveness you have not achieved

My ex-husband is remarrying and asked me to tell our kids how happy I am for him, but I am still hurt and angry and do not want to lie to them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pressure to demonstrate grace for others' comfort conflicts with the need to process unresolved pain honestly.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Hesed — Hebrew covenantal loving-kindness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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