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Scenario

When revealing someone's betrayal would expose your own

My friend is dating someone who I know is cheating on her but the only reason I know is because I saw him on a dating app while I was cheating on my own partner.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The moral obligation to protect a friend from deception conflicts with the personal cost of revealing information that implicates oneself.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Hesed — Hebrew covenantal loving-kindness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.