My husband had an affair two years ago and we went to therapy and I forgave him but I still check his phone every time he leaves it unattended and I cannot stop.
More people experience this than they realize.
The mind's insistence on vigilance can outlast the heart's capacity for forgiveness, trapping both partners in the aftermath of betrayal.
“Where Are You with Marriage as Institution and Lived Experience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.