My husband had an affair two years ago and we went to therapy and I forgave him but I still check his phone every time he leaves it unattended and I cannot stop.
More people experience this than they realize.
The mind's insistence on vigilance can outlast the heart's capacity for forgiveness, trapping both partners in the aftermath of betrayal.
“Where Are You with Marriage as Institution and Lived Experience?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.