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Scenario

When your partner wants change but won't participate in solutions

My husband refuses to go to therapy with me but constantly complains about our communication problems and expects me to fix them alone.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire for transformation without the willingness to be transformed creates a partnership of perpetual frustration.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.