Periagoge
Scenario

When your partner demands physical changes

My husband wants me to lose weight to be more attractive and I know I should leave him but I also know I've let myself go and I'm confused about what's reasonable to ask of a partner.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Conditional desire wounds the soul while raising complex questions about mutual responsibility in long-term partnerships.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Eros — Greek desire and its wisdom?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.