My partner apologized for hurting me but then said I hurt them too and we never actually talked about what they did wrong because the conversation became about my reactions instead.
More people experience this than they realize.
The deflection of accountability disguised as mutual responsibility prevents the very healing that genuine remorse could provide.
“Where Are You with Forgiveness in intimate relationships?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.