My partner is transgender and transitioning and I'm trying to be supportive but I'm grieving the person I fell in love with and I feel like a terrible person for that.
More people experience this than they realize.
Supporting a loved one's authentic emergence while grieving the loss of who they appeared to be creates a paradox of simultaneous love and loss.
“Where Are You with Eros — Greek desire and its wisdom?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.