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Scenario

How to Love a Person Instead of an Idea

My partner says I love an idea of them, not who they actually are, and I don't know how to see them clearly anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The beloved has been obscured by layers of projection and desire, making genuine recognition nearly impossible.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Courtly Love & Idealization?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.