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Scenario

When your partner avoids conversations about your shared future

My partner shuts down emotionally whenever I try to discuss our future together and says I am being pushy, but we have been together four years.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of commitment masquerades as a preference for spontaneity, leaving one person building a life the other refuses to acknowledge.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.