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When acceptance and grief coexist in parent coming out stories

My son came out as gay and I'm so proud of him, but I'm also secretly mourning the traditional wedding and grandchildren I always imagined, and I hate myself for feeling this way.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Loving parents can simultaneously celebrate their child's authenticity while mourning specific dreams that authenticity changes.

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