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Scenario

When acceptance and grief coexist in parent coming out stories

My son came out as gay and I'm so proud of him, but I'm also secretly mourning the traditional wedding and grandchildren I always imagined, and I hate myself for feeling this way.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Loving parents can simultaneously celebrate their child's authenticity while mourning specific dreams that authenticity changes.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Disenfranchised grief — when loss isn't recognized?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.