My teenage daughter refuses to come to synagogue for her grandfather's yahrzeit and I don't know if I should force her or let her grieve in her own way.
More people experience this than they realize.
Parenting through loss requires negotiating between honoring memory and honoring autonomy.
“Where Are You with Jewish mourning — shiva shloshim yahrzeit?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.