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Scenario

When therapy after infidelity feels like victim blaming

My wife cheated and we're in couples therapy but the therapist keeps asking me what I contributed to the affair and it makes me want to scream.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The search for mutual responsibility can become another site of injury when timing and context are ignored.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Infidelity — all perspectives?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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