Periagoge
Scenario

When criticism creates a cycle of withdrawal in domestic responsibilities

My wife criticizes everything I do around the house and then complains that I do not help enough, and I have started avoiding household tasks entirely.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pursuit of perfection becomes a form of cruelty that destroys the very cooperation it claims to seek.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.