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Scenario

When Grief Erases the Truth of Relationship

My wife died two years ago and I can't stop idealizing our marriage even though I know it had real problems that I'm now forgetting.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Loss has sanctified memory, making honest remembrance feel like desecration of the sacred dead.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Courtly Love & Idealization?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.