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Scenario

When grief creates wounds that outlast the loss itself

My wife had a miscarriage two years ago and blamed me for not being supportive enough and I have tried to make it up to her but she still brings it up when we fight.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared trauma can become a blade that one partner wields against the other long after the original wound has scarred over.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in intimate relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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