My wife handles all our finances and major decisions without asking me, and when I try to discuss it she says I should be grateful she takes care of everything, but I feel like a child in my own marriage.
More people experience this than they realize.
The balance between competence and partnership has collapsed into a dynamic where capability becomes a justification for control.
“Where Are You with Confucian Partnership Ethics — Duty and Love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.