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Scenario

When physical attraction fades in long-term partnership

My wife has gained sixty pounds since we married and I feel terrible about it but I am not attracted to her anymore and I hate myself for feeling this way.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The body's honest responses conflict with the heart's deeper loyalties, creating shame around feelings that feel both shallow and undeniable.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-Term Partnership and Commitment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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