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Scenario

When life changes make old friendship humor patterns feel wrong

My best friend and I have been making self-deprecating jokes together for twenty years, but since her divorce she's gotten really sensitive about it and I can't tell if I should stop being myself around her or if she needs to hear that she's being too serious. Our whole friendship feels stilted now.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Major life transitions can make previously comfortable humor feel either too light or too heavy, leaving friends unsure how to reconnect.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Self-deprecating humor?”

Peri

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