My best friend and I used to dare each other to do things — weird art classes, terrible open mic nights, conversations with strangers — but now we mostly just complain about our lives and enable each other's fear of trying anything new. I want to suggest we start pushing each other again, but I'm worried she'll think I'm being judgmental about how stuck we've both gotten.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've created a safe space together, but safety has become stagnation, and neither of you knows how to reintroduce challenge without breaking the comfort.
“Where Are You with Courage and play?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.