My college roommate and I moved in together after graduation thinking it would be like old times, but we've become these careful adults who ask permission to use each other's stuff and never stay up talking anymore. We're both being so respectful and considerate that we've lost all the easy intimacy that made us want to live together in the first place.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of overstepping boundaries has created such careful distance that you've lost the very familiarity that made sharing space feel natural.
“Where Are You with Carnival and transgression?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.