My dad and I used to work on his old car together and get so focused on solving problems that hours would pass like minutes, but since his arthritis got worse I do most of the physical work while he watches and neither of us knows how to recreate that feeling of being absorbed in something challenging together.
More people experience this than they realize.
Physical changes have disrupted their established pattern of collaborative problem-solving without creating space for a new form of shared engagement.
“Where Are You with Flow and play — Csikszentmihalyi's insight?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.