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Scenario

When friend groups over-plan their attempts at spontaneity

My friends and I are all in our thirties now and our spontaneous hangouts have turned into these elaborate productions with group chats and scheduling apps and backup plans for the backup plans. We're trying so hard to make spontaneous things happen that we've engineered all the spontaneity right out of it, but none of us knows how to just... show up anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You've become so afraid of spontaneity failing that you've systematically eliminated the very conditions that make it possible.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Spontaneity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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