My husband and I are dealing with our second miscarriage and we keep trying to 'stay positive' and 'find the silver lining' but we're both exhausted from performing hope for each other when what we really want is to just sit in this sadness together and maybe find small moments that don't hurt. We used to be good at comforting each other but now we're just two people trying to cheer up someone who doesn't want to be cheered up.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're caught between genuine grief and the pressure to manufacture positivity, losing touch with the organic comfort you once offered each other.
“Where Are You with Finding joy in difficulty?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.