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Scenario

When couples become efficient roommates instead of playful partners

My husband and I have gotten so good at being efficient roommates - dividing chores, managing schedules, discussing decisions - but we realized last week that we haven't been playful or flirty in months and we don't remember how to just mess around together.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

They've optimized their relationship for productivity at the expense of the lighthearted intimacy that actually makes partnership enjoyable.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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