My husband and I used to spend entire Sundays doing nothing together — reading in bed, making elaborate breakfasts, wandering through bookstores — and now we fill every weekend with productive activities and errands and I miss that purposeless time but when I suggest it he says we have too much to get done.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who once knew how to be idle together have forgotten that unproductive time is a skill that requires mutual permission.
“Where Are You with Leisure — what it means and why we've lost it?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.