My husband has terrible insomnia and I'm a heavy sleeper, and he resents that I can just crash while he lies there for hours, and I resent being woken up when he tosses and turns or gets up to read. We're both sleep-deprived and cranky and it's affecting everything, but we don't know whose needs should come first.
More people experience this than they realize.
A couple is caught between competing sleep needs, with one person's struggle with darkness becoming a source of mutual resentment.
“Where Are You with Night — the relationship with darkness?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.