Periagoge
Scenario

When grief makes family members afraid to experience joy together

My mom and I used to call each other just to share funny things we saw or weird thoughts we had, but since my dad died two years ago, every conversation feels like it has to be either about grief or aggressively cheerful updates about our lives. We're both afraid that being silly or light will somehow dishonor his memory or minimize what we've been through.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sorrow has convinced you that laughter would be a betrayal.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Deserts and arid landscapes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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