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Scenario

When family relationships lose their lightness during difficult times

My mom and I used to laugh until we cried when we'd go shopping or cook together, but ever since my dad's diagnosis two years ago every conversation feels heavy and careful. We both try to keep things light but it feels performative, and I think we're both afraid that laughing too much means we're not taking his situation seriously enough.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Grief has made joy feel like betrayal, trapping you both in artificial solemnity.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

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