Periagoge
Scenario

When couples have mismatched sleep schedules that hurt intimacy

My partner and I have completely different sleep schedules and it's killing our intimacy — they're a night owl who comes alive after midnight and I crash at 9pm, and we barely see each other awake anymore except on weekends. We keep saying we'll figure it out but months pass and we're like ships in the night, literally.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are losing connection because their natural rhythms with darkness and rest are fundamentally incompatible.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Night — the relationship with darkness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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