My partner and I keep fighting about the fruit trees in our yard — I think we should share with the neighbors and anyone who asks, but they think people are taking advantage and we should put up signs or fences. We used to love giving away bags of apples together and now every harvest season turns into this tension about boundaries and generosity.
More people experience this than they realize.
The generosity that once brought them joy has become a source of resentment because they never established shared principles about giving.
“Where Are You with Trees — what we owe them?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.