My partner and I planted memorial trees for each of our grandparents but now we're getting divorced and neither of us wants to give up visiting them, but being there together feels impossible. We can't figure out how to share grief space or whether we even should, and our lawyers don't exactly have protocols for tree visitation.
More people experience this than they realize.
The trees hold meaning that transcends the relationship, but accessing that meaning requires navigating the pain of the relationship's end.
“Where Are You with Trees — what we owe them?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.