Periagoge
Scenario

When couples lose their spontaneity and everything becomes planned

My partner and I used to be spontaneous and silly together but somewhere along the way we became a couple that plans everything and discusses everything and I miss the version of us that would just decide to drive somewhere at midnight because we felt like it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The relationship has become so careful and structured that the wild, impulsive joy that once defined it has been completely domesticated.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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