My partner and I used to break all kinds of little rules together — sneaking into movies, staying out way too late, making out in inappropriate places — and now we follow every social convention and I can't tell if we've matured or if we've lost something essential about who we were together. We both feel it but neither of us knows how to talk about missing our rebellious selves without sounding like we want to blow up our stable life.
More people experience this than they realize.
The very transgressions that once bonded you have been domesticated into respectability, leaving you both wondering if intimacy requires a little wildness.
“Where Are You with Carnival and transgression?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.